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Friday, June 3, 2011
Saturday, May 28, 2011
OLD poems of me
I miss you, that’s all
I miss you, that’s all
I miss the times we’d shared together
Miss the days we’d spent together
Remember the cries and laughs we had
How we’d touched each others heart
I miss you, and that’s what I want to say
You’re all I’d ever wanted
You’re all I’d ever needed
I knew you’d love me from the very start
And I thank you for giving me the love
Thank you for everything
For the times you’d cared for me
For the thoughts you’d given me
For understanding me
And accepting the weaknesses I have in me
I miss you, this things I want you to know
I’m happy that you’d became a part of my life
And I thank you for the wonderful memories you’d given me
But maybe you don’t understand
Why I left and leave you this way
But believe me, I have my reasons
I know we’re not meant for each other
That we’re not destined to be together
I’m sorry, but this had been the best thing to do
To leave you and start a new life
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Man of Dreams
Man of my dream so you are
You’re so fine you make me feel fine
All of my life I’ve been searching you
Now that you’re here I’ll keep you near
I can’t imagine how small world is
That I keep on searching, Not knowing you’re already near
Now that you’re next to me, I won’t waste anytime
And I will make you feel that you’re not alone
Man of my dreams, you’re so fine
You make my fantasy to change into reality
You came from my dream and make it come true
Man of my dream and that is you
Now that you’re here I will keep you near
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Sunday, April 17, 2011
PSEUDO RELATIONSHIP
She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect. They met and became lovers in college. They broke up last year but remained to be "friends." They send sweet text messages and he calls her often to make sure she’s okay. They still date. They still have sex. They don’t see anyone else. It is obvious that they still love each other but when asked about their situation, she doesn’t know the real score. Even her friends are in the dark. "Parang sila, pero hindi." She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the board. They are in the same barkada. They talk on the phone till 4 am. He gives her chocolates, flowers and CDs even when there is no occasion. Their friends are suspecting something. Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may overnight inuman? Why does he hold her close on the dance floor? Bakit sila magkaholding hands lagi? Sila kaya? "He hasn’t admitted anything," she rants. "But I let him hug and kiss me. Parang kami, pero hindi." They work together in an ad agency. After office, they would watch movie, have dinner and stroll at Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter books for his birthday in exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an ex jealous. They made out during the company outing in Subic and never talked about it. He said "I love you" once but she wasn’t sure if she heard him correctly because they were both drunk then. But one thing she is sure of is her feelings for him. She likes him. And she’s assuming that with what he’s doing to her and with her, he likes her, too.
There’s just one hitch: he has a girlfriend! She is a 28-year-old virgin. He’s a 35-year-old bachelor. Both mountaineers, they became close during their climbs. After a few dates in posh restaurants, he brings her to his condo where they would make out. They have been doing this for months. She wants to believe that "sila na" but then she’s not really sure about it. "We don’t talk about it but it doesn’t really matter," she’d tell her friends. "What’s important is I am enjoying this — whatever it is." The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage. Others call it MU or mutual understanding. Pseudo-relationship s. Pseudo- boyfriends. Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers. Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of you may have admitted your feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your gestures do the talking for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari. Hindi kayo mag-dyowa. Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi. This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. You still love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. And for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan. It can also happen before a relationship, yung pareho kayong nakikiramdam. Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna.
Testing lang. Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo –usually the guy –may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangagaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo." This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng "kalaro." Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan. So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan? Iba’t ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang. Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa w ala" or puwede na iyang "pantawid-gutom." Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian. For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be fun, if all you are after for is that "kilig" feeling. But although it was only a pseudo-relationship , the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae lagi ang lugi.
Una, you can’t ask him to commit. Since it’s not really a relationship, you can’t demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hating gabi? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. You can’t expect him to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to yourself. Ano ka ba niya para magselos? PangalawaBaka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can’t. Because you’re not sure if he’ll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang. This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship. Or if there is a relationship at all. Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much? What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn’t? What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys, only to find out that he is seeing other girls? Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationship s, it is fleeting. When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship . Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-relationship , there is no "us." Meron lang "you and me," hindi "us." Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo- relationship, hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And you will be miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody else. Ang hirap, ano?
You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then you’d end up hurting yourself in the process. Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh. Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the consequences. But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live the moment without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with pseudo-relationships and wait for the real thing. Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo. Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang "parang kayo pero hindi" stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo. Usually, hanggang doon lang siya … Almost, but not quite.
This is without a doubt one of the nicest good luck forwards I have
received.
Hope it works for you - and me
Lotus Totus:
You have 6 minutes
There’s some mighty fine advice in these words, even if you’re not
superstitious. This Lotus Totus has been sent to you for good luck.
It has been sent around the world ten times so far.
Do not keep this message.
The Lotus Totus must leave your hands in 6 MINUTES. Otherwise you will get
a very unpleasant surprise. This is true, even if you are not
superstitious, agnostic, or otherwise faith impaired.
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their
conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you
want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I’m sorry," look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone’s dreams. People who don’t have dreams don’t
have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only
way to live life completely.
TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don’t judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile
and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great
risk.
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear
someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others;
and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to
correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your
voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
Now, here’s the FUN part!
Send this to at least 5 people and your life will improve.
1-4 people: Your life will improve slightly.
5-9 people: Your life will improve to your liking.
9-14 people: You will have at least 5 surprises in the next 3 weeks
15 and above: Your life will improve drastically and everything you ever
dreamed of will begin to take shape.
A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your
heart.
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Prince William and Kate Middleton Wedding
Can you guess who's engagement ring is this?
Right, this was the late Princess Diana's ring but now owned by Kate Middleton. Prince William proposed to Kate Middleton using the 18-carat sapphire and diamond engagement ring that belonged to his mother. So what does the famous ring look like? It’s the dazzling oval, 18-carat blue sapphire and white diamond ring that the late Princess Diana chose after becoming engaged to Charles in 1981. Kate Middleton has no royal connections. She grew up in Bucklebury, England, a small village about 45 miles west of central London. Her parents are millionaire entrepreneurs who run Party Pieces, an online children’s party supplies business.
Prince William and Kate Middleton seem to enjoy a less high-profile style than Princess Diana and Prince Charles, so their royal wedding may be on a much smaller scale. Most Brits are delighted that the young Prince William will soon take a bride, even if she does not come from Royalty herself. Everyone's excited for their wedding this coming on Friday April 29. It was revealed that the regal pair have employed Beverly Hills designer, Kenneth Bordewick for the task at hand.
Kate Middleton is currently living with her fiance at a house in Anglesey, giving them some privacy from the press and paparazzi. The couple will continue living there after the wedding. After the wedding, Prince William and Kate plan to settle into a picturesque farmhouse in the Welsh countryside. Sizing up at 4,000 square feet, the humble abode will be surrounded by rolling lawns, and farmland. We even hear that Prince William will not have too far of a commute as the property is located near the Royal Air Force base (Anglesey, North Wales).
Good luck to their wedding!
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